![]() Maybe you puked in a friend's car, or peed your pants, or accidentally ate dish detergent packets. Most of us have at least one embarrassing drunk moment in our lives. Really, how could this ever possibly go wrong?ĥ Well, He Once Fell Asleep In The Middle Of A Party. So, big deal, right? He's simply sleepily initiating sex with women he already has an intimate relationship with, who always assume he's awake and go along with it. ![]() And I thought it was just some sort of weird fever dream, because whether I'm sleeping or awake, why would I just do that for a long time? Why wouldn't there be some sort of escalation of it? I was sure that was a strange dream I had. I've had it happen a few times where my wife will say, 'Oh, you did such and such in your sleep last night,' and I'll say, 'You know, I thought that was a dream that time!' There was a time where I was just kissing my wife's butt cheeks repeatedly for a long, long time. Again, it's hard to tell if it's a dream or if it's me coming in and out of consciousness and being sort of partially aware of what's actually happening. "Sometimes it'll be accompanied by a kind of vague sex dream. OK, we'll just say it: During sleep sex, he's suddenly super into butt stuff. He'll find out he, uh, did things he wouldn't normally be aroused by. And even weirder, his sexual preferences change dramatically when he's asleep. James doesn't believe he has a higher than average libido in waking life. It's not exactly the easiest thing to study. Science isn't totally sure what causes sexsomnia. And maybe the second or third time, I thought there might be a connection." 6 It Seems Like A Very Vivid Sex Dream I'd apologize for it and we'd talk about it. The next morning, she'd be saying, 'You tried to do such and such last night, but I think you were sleeping because you weren't really speaking to me,' that kind of thing. "My next serious girlfriend made an offhand comment a few times. ![]() It wasn't until years later that James realized he probably initiated it. She finished he never slept with her again, and ultimately ghosted. He was confused and frightened, because he assumed his partner had violated him while he was sound asleep. I don't know if this was the first time it happened, but it was certainly the first time it happened and progressed to the stage where there was enough physical activity and noise happening that I then woke up a bit, toward the end." I woke up mid-sex without any memory of how or why the girl was on top of me. ![]() That was the first girl I was dating who I was sleeping over regularly with, and also, probably not coincidentally, around this time, I had started drinking. "That first experience was with the girl I was dating at the time," says James. 7 The First Time, He Thought He Was Being Raped ![]()
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